Quote from RodrigoAlves:
Lol. 3 pages of map makers trying to give advice about girls. This is funny. You guyz are talking about girls as if they were the pop sys. Well, I have to join this.
Here's my advice:
If you want more than just sex, don't start a relationship. Let the relationship start you. (This is not a soviet russia joke. It's more like the "cultivate ur garden and wait for the butterfly" joke. :)
Pretty much what this guy has said.
Though my personal stance on this subject is rather...different.
To put it bluntly, I'd like to have someone to be with, someone of my age and who can understand me, but I don't really give a damn about sex, marriage, religion, nationalism, children, reproducing, pets, growing old, drinking beer, watching live sports, reality shows, nor lame romantic or action movies. And I will never pretend to want or like any of those kind of things. I do not want to follow those lame and mundane things everyone somehow enjoy. What can I say, I like getting thrills, I like playing video games, watching movies since they give me a feeling akin to having my senses boosted and I enjoy it. And I also enjoy knowledge and conscience. I like being right, and as a result, I often take the cold, calculated road to a situation. So, people might think it weird that I wear only boxers while I am home, but to me, reason gives this sense, and that's all I need, not that weird twisted sense of mental comfort that I see a lot. Doesn't mean I can't feel no emotion, though. I'd have no preferences in life then. No real freedom, either.
In that sense, I cater to absolutely no niche. I am not your average gentlemen nor your jerk. I'm just some dude no one gets because I don't try to "be human". And I just refuse to also take pleasure in things that are a natural part of my lifecycle. I don't care about sex, yet I like women. I don't want children, either..Ever. I can't say I'm selfish, though, I am quite nice IRL. (Perhaps too nice)
Anyways, I don't feel it was necessary to yap this much about myself, so I'll leave it at that. I respect you guys, but I find all your stances somewhat ridiculous. I don't mean any offense, it's just the way I feel. I do think honesty and respect for life are important values, however...
So, right, my question is, are we, as a...species, to eventually overcome this natural cycle of reproduction, to win over aging and eventually become something truly different? Because it seems to me that everyone is making such a huge deal out of women, mating, etc. And some apparently mature people end up losing themselves and their reason when discussing this matter. It's as if it awaken's everyone's inner child. And I don't know about you guys, but I think I accidentally ran over my inner child a few years ago, with that imaginary Hummer I always never wanted to own...And I guess this is the result. A weird purée of pure, incoherent madness. But hey, the squishy sound it made was nice, though! I liked that. I know you guys would've, too.
...What can I say, at 3 AM, philosophy gets the best of me...I need some sleep. I do sound like a huge jerk, to be honest...Bah, I'll just shut up now and let you guys be the judge of that.
I think it's kinda strange that this thread has nearly 1 k views and more that it's on it's 4th page of posts :P
One thing to reply to all of you is:
Thanks for all the good advice, points of views and arguments :)
As a clever man once said: "To get a good idea, you've got to have many ideas"
And btw. this post is solved :P I'm not tired of girls any more (i change my mind real quick :P) Sometimes i just get all emotional when a girl dumps me, maybe it's because I've been rejected more than 100 times :P but I'm beginning to care less and less ^^
Im 14 years old and im also virgin but it doesn't really bother me much...
Right now i dont really care about girls and i wont get a girlfriend unless i fall in love or something... which haven't occured to me in more than 1 year now
I just think that theres no reason to get a girlfriend and get laid if im not in love ._.
I personally find myself really unattractive and i cant believe if any girl would hit on me at this point so i dont expect anything xD
(i might need to change that...)
But someday if i get lucky i might find a cute girl that i like ^^
Fuck yeah! That message inspired me to do great things, Anteep. I'm glad you ressurrected this 1,5 year old thread so you could post that useful piece of knowledge. It has really added to my life.
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@RodrigoAlves: Go
I believe I can say this on everyone elses behalf.
Girls. Serious Business.
I think it's kinda strange that this thread has nearly 1 k views and more that it's on it's 4th page of posts :P
One thing to reply to all of you is:
Thanks for all the good advice, points of views and arguments :)
As a clever man once said: "To get a good idea, you've got to have many ideas"
And btw. this post is solved :P I'm not tired of girls any more (i change my mind real quick :P) Sometimes i just get all emotional when a girl dumps me, maybe it's because I've been rejected more than 100 times :P but I'm beginning to care less and less ^^
She was a bitch.
/End of thread
@h34dl4g: Go
Just what i was waiting to hear ^^
Im 14 years old and im also virgin but it doesn't really bother me much...
Right now i dont really care about girls and i wont get a girlfriend unless i fall in love or something... which haven't occured to me in more than 1 year now
I just think that theres no reason to get a girlfriend and get laid if im not in love ._.
I personally find myself really unattractive and i cant believe if any girl would hit on me at this point so i dont expect anything xD
(i might need to change that...)
But someday if i get lucky i might find a cute girl that i like ^^
This
@srsyjd: Go
Your 14 dude ^^
There's a huge difference between a 14 year old and a 17 year old :P
And never think that you're unattractive, that just makes you even more unattractive to girls :P (that's one thing I've learned)
Glad you changed your mind, i was slightly worried you were going to venture into the dark side. May the teachings of James Bond be with you.
yes... yes the dark side of the force is strong in this one... careless and less and less
Girls are evil
girls aren't evil
girls will turn the weakest men into evil men
Fuck yeah! That message inspired me to do great things, Anteep. I'm glad you ressurrected this 1,5 year old thread so you could post that useful piece of knowledge. It has really added to my life.