well the love of money isn't a good thing but the main point of that statement is to convey that taking care of yourself and your well being is more important then concerning yourself with females. Because ultimately you gotta pay the cost to be the boss. Even if a woman is independent and making her own money it is expected that you have the ability to support her emotionally and monentarily because in this world your lively hood depends on it. love doesnt pay the bills. (I seriously doubt an 18 year old girl is that mature)
M.O.B is a philosophy that basically dictates that your livelyhood is a top priority followed by finding a mate. It is essentially the same principle that your other peers were refering to in a more colorful way.
Stop looking to make everyone else be what you want them to be. Just because you're a gentlemen doesn't mean that every woman wants a gentlemen, especially at your age. If you're a good guy, just make some friends, and eventually you'll find someone who's looking for the same thing.
Look at it this way, would you really want a girlfriend who would fuck a random stranger on a toilet? I wouldn't. No thanks.
Fuck anyone that thinks losing his/her virginity is some kind of status symbol. It's not. It's not worth worrying about.
Edit: And don't listen to anyone who's telling you to 'act indifferent' or whatever bullshit. A good girlfriend is someone you can open up and be yourself with. Why change for someone else?
You've just got to realize that people are going to be selfish, doesn't mean you should give up on everyone. Just stick to dating for awhile man, see what other girls are out there, play it aloof and just be yourself. If a skank is gonna do that to you, get rid of her. No use keeping anyone around who's going to do that to you. It's not the end of the world, it's just a speedbump in your long drive towards happiness.
Sounds like you had a narrow miss with that one. If the only thing you're able to get from a girl is sexual gratification, you may as well just masturbate.
Sounds like you had a narrow miss with that one. If the only thing
you're able to get from a girl is sexual gratification, you may as well
just masturbate.
Now thats a rule to live by. Its sad but thats all most women are good for.
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Sounds like you had a narrow miss with that one. If the only thing you're able to get from a girl is sexual gratification, you may as well just masturbate.
Stop looking to make everyone else be what you want them to be. Just because you're a gentlemen doesn't mean that every woman wants a gentlemen, especially at your age. If you're a good guy, just make some friends, and eventually you'll find someone who's looking for the same thing.
Look at it this way, would you really want a girlfriend who would fuck a random stranger on a toilet? I wouldn't. No thanks.
Fuck anyone that thinks losing his/her virginity is some kind of status symbol. It's not. It's not worth worrying about.
Edit: And don't listen to anyone who's telling you to 'act indifferent' or whatever bullshit. A good girlfriend is someone you can open up and be yourself with. Why change for someone else?
There is a way that things should idealistically be and a way things actually are. Being able to open up to some one is one element of a relationship. However, when we say be indifferent or a jerk, It is simply referring to trying to capture the attention of a young woman. If you are boring, predictable and too nice then the young woman will lose interest. You should want the young lady to be interested in you and working to gain your attention. It isn't bull shit it is a means to an end that realistically has been proven through experience and time. Also sex isn't everything as @Catalisk: Go, so tactfully stated, however it is also a important element. Physical attraction and chemistry is important to propagate the species. Woman instinctively look for men that fits the cultural status quo. those who are physically and emotionally strong whom can be good providers or whom can take charge and be a man so to speak. For the majority of woman a guy talking about feelings all of the time is pretty emo and not sexy at all.
I agree with the virginity thing... realistically you should have it when you are emotionally ready for it. To much of a good thing gets old pretty quickly and it is really only meaningful if you have it with someone you really love.
Many men felt that they could trust the woman and open up to them and thought it was enough... and ultimately failed in the end due to vaios other factors.
Heh.. It's because of crap like this I've decided to take a break from the dating game and just observe people and their relationships. See if I can learn anything from them.
A friend of mine theorized that the process to how women select their mates can be linked the theory of evolution. They want the best for their offspring, and there is a limit to how many offspring they can conceive within a lifetime. Thus they have to be very very selective. Any signs of weakness, emotional of physical are factors that can come into play here. This happens on a subconscious level.. So when the woman feels you aren't the best, she bails. The excuse is often "you're just not the one" with no further explanation. This leaves you in an infinite loop making you wander where you went wrong until your brain crashes as to why it didn't work. Sometimes you just gotta realize, its not your fault.
Its something that might not be easy to accept. Be yourself, Good advice. But that doesn't mean, stay the way you are. From various sources.. women are attracted to men with a drive. Ambition etc. So I deduced.. Keep thriving to improve, don't stagnate. There is a lot of good advice in the previous posts that I've skimmed through here, though they may cater for people of different virtues. Take the advice you feel is right. Take the others with a pinch of salt.
The bottom line. If the theory that women want the best for their gene pool applies. Work on yourself. You can't change women.. I duno, maybe they're promiscuous by nature. But the loyal more mature ones have much better control over their desires to fuck around. Don't invest too much emotionally into the relationship at once. Thats like dumping a million dollars into the stock market at once then losing it all if the price drops. Put your eggs into a few baskets. Date around. Then take your pick. Everyone born into this world is given a choice, between settling for the leftovers, or fighting for what you deserve.
Be warned.. There are some women out there who have very black hearts.. If you get what I mean. The gold diggers. The ones who feel better about themselves when they break hearts. Don't stand for it. You don't have to. Because you deserve someone better. As we move on in life, it gets easier to identify the bad girls from the good mature women. Bad girls aren't worth the investment in the long run.
If you're wondering what my story is.. To keep a long story short I guess I got dumped for someone she deemed was better, subconsciously. You tend to feel really cheated when shit like this happens. Especially when you trusted that one girl so much. She asked me once if I believe in second chances.. I told her no.. Once I'm over, I'm over. Its a very cynical view of the world, but the psychology here is that.. If someone can cheat you once. They can cheat you again. So my tip is, don't trust people too easily or they'll step on you.
Forgive the poor structure of my text. I'm bad with literature so I really can't be bothered to rearrange it.
Lol. 3 pages of map makers trying to give advice about girls. This is funny. You guyz are talking about girls as if they were the pop sys. Well, I have to join this.
Here's my advice:
If you want more than just sex, don't start a relationship. Let the relationship start you. (This is not a soviet russia joke. It's more like the "cultivate ur garden and wait for the butterfly" joke. :)
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@ZealNaga: Go
That is the first agreeable argument i've seen on this thread ^^
Thx, that is a good advise ;)
@SouLCarveRR
Thanks for clearing those rules out for me :P
I never knew those kinds of rules existed ^^
@ChaosBerserker: Go
what so your saying my argument isn't agreeable :p
@michaelknives: Go
Hmm, on some points
But i don't really like that M.O.B. Statement :P Money is a Material object, whereas girls aren't :P
I am the opposite of a Materialist, and I've got plenty of money to make it through life so i don't really care much about them :P
@ChaosBerserker: Go
well the love of money isn't a good thing but the main point of that statement is to convey that taking care of yourself and your well being is more important then concerning yourself with females. Because ultimately you gotta pay the cost to be the boss. Even if a woman is independent and making her own money it is expected that you have the ability to support her emotionally and monentarily because in this world your lively hood depends on it. love doesnt pay the bills. (I seriously doubt an 18 year old girl is that mature)
M.O.B is a philosophy that basically dictates that your livelyhood is a top priority followed by finding a mate. It is essentially the same principle that your other peers were refering to in a more colorful way.
I banged girls on the toilet until I was 20ish, then I started watching anime and hentai. Now girls are stupid uneeded IRL things without value!
@Victiln: Go
Let me guess, when you were 19 and 364 days until you were 20 and 1 day? :P
Sell your StarCraft 2 Collectors Edition on eBay, claim that $150, hire a ho, and you're no longer a virgin!! You can start from there!
Don't worry, If it cheers you up my brother is 19 and he never kissed a girl.
@Victiln: Go
really couldn't have the decency to do it in a shower or a bed how romantic... tee hee silly rabbit tricks really are for kids.
@AfroSama: Go
$150 is way too much seriously if you go to a gentlemen's club you can get a way more reasonable price to get it out of your system.
@michaelknives: Go
No im not talking about gentlemen club or strip club. those only give u lap dance.
Im talking bout hiring real hooker for $150. or add $100 for girlfriend experience lolz
@AfroSama: Go
the two go hand and hand... often in a gentlemens club you can find a freelancer
Stop looking to make everyone else be what you want them to be. Just because you're a gentlemen doesn't mean that every woman wants a gentlemen, especially at your age. If you're a good guy, just make some friends, and eventually you'll find someone who's looking for the same thing.
Look at it this way, would you really want a girlfriend who would fuck a random stranger on a toilet? I wouldn't. No thanks.
Fuck anyone that thinks losing his/her virginity is some kind of status symbol. It's not. It's not worth worrying about.
Edit: And don't listen to anyone who's telling you to 'act indifferent' or whatever bullshit. A good girlfriend is someone you can open up and be yourself with. Why change for someone else?
You've just got to realize that people are going to be selfish, doesn't mean you should give up on everyone. Just stick to dating for awhile man, see what other girls are out there, play it aloof and just be yourself. If a skank is gonna do that to you, get rid of her. No use keeping anyone around who's going to do that to you. It's not the end of the world, it's just a speedbump in your long drive towards happiness.
Sounds like you had a narrow miss with that one. If the only thing you're able to get from a girl is sexual gratification, you may as well just masturbate.
Now thats a rule to live by. Its sad but thats all most women are good for.
agreed
@MotiveMe: Go
There is a way that things should idealistically be and a way things actually are. Being able to open up to some one is one element of a relationship. However, when we say be indifferent or a jerk, It is simply referring to trying to capture the attention of a young woman. If you are boring, predictable and too nice then the young woman will lose interest. You should want the young lady to be interested in you and working to gain your attention. It isn't bull shit it is a means to an end that realistically has been proven through experience and time. Also sex isn't everything as @Catalisk: Go, so tactfully stated, however it is also a important element. Physical attraction and chemistry is important to propagate the species. Woman instinctively look for men that fits the cultural status quo. those who are physically and emotionally strong whom can be good providers or whom can take charge and be a man so to speak. For the majority of woman a guy talking about feelings all of the time is pretty emo and not sexy at all.
I agree with the virginity thing... realistically you should have it when you are emotionally ready for it. To much of a good thing gets old pretty quickly and it is really only meaningful if you have it with someone you really love.
Many men felt that they could trust the woman and open up to them and thought it was enough... and ultimately failed in the end due to vaios other factors.
Heh.. It's because of crap like this I've decided to take a break from the dating game and just observe people and their relationships. See if I can learn anything from them.
A friend of mine theorized that the process to how women select their mates can be linked the theory of evolution. They want the best for their offspring, and there is a limit to how many offspring they can conceive within a lifetime. Thus they have to be very very selective. Any signs of weakness, emotional of physical are factors that can come into play here. This happens on a subconscious level.. So when the woman feels you aren't the best, she bails. The excuse is often "you're just not the one" with no further explanation. This leaves you in an infinite loop making you wander where you went wrong until your brain crashes as to why it didn't work. Sometimes you just gotta realize, its not your fault.
Its something that might not be easy to accept. Be yourself, Good advice. But that doesn't mean, stay the way you are. From various sources.. women are attracted to men with a drive. Ambition etc. So I deduced.. Keep thriving to improve, don't stagnate. There is a lot of good advice in the previous posts that I've skimmed through here, though they may cater for people of different virtues. Take the advice you feel is right. Take the others with a pinch of salt.
The bottom line. If the theory that women want the best for their gene pool applies. Work on yourself. You can't change women.. I duno, maybe they're promiscuous by nature. But the loyal more mature ones have much better control over their desires to fuck around. Don't invest too much emotionally into the relationship at once. Thats like dumping a million dollars into the stock market at once then losing it all if the price drops. Put your eggs into a few baskets. Date around. Then take your pick. Everyone born into this world is given a choice, between settling for the leftovers, or fighting for what you deserve.
Be warned.. There are some women out there who have very black hearts.. If you get what I mean. The gold diggers. The ones who feel better about themselves when they break hearts. Don't stand for it. You don't have to. Because you deserve someone better. As we move on in life, it gets easier to identify the bad girls from the good mature women. Bad girls aren't worth the investment in the long run.
If you're wondering what my story is.. To keep a long story short I guess I got dumped for someone she deemed was better, subconsciously. You tend to feel really cheated when shit like this happens. Especially when you trusted that one girl so much. She asked me once if I believe in second chances.. I told her no.. Once I'm over, I'm over. Its a very cynical view of the world, but the psychology here is that.. If someone can cheat you once. They can cheat you again. So my tip is, don't trust people too easily or they'll step on you.
Forgive the poor structure of my text. I'm bad with literature so I really can't be bothered to rearrange it.
Lol. 3 pages of map makers trying to give advice about girls. This is funny. You guyz are talking about girls as if they were the pop sys. Well, I have to join this.
Here's my advice: