Yeah if you pay attention to details, and take a look a love interest's Facebook, theres a tendancy to be totally no longer interested. I for one am completely anti-facebook. Its stupid "look at me" "look at me" bullshit that I for one will not tolerate.
EternalWraith for once I agree with you 100%. Women are overrated, and a pain in the ass.
And I hear you can rent women down at your local pub. It just costs a couple drinks as a down payment. And theres no messy break-up Included.
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@FuzzYD: Go I think our situation is quite similar. Three years have I shared with this sweet! sweet girl. She approached me, one day, not going after anyone else despite what distance I kept with people, she came to me, surprisingly, with all her light and cute little hands. She would always request a hug. All the time.
I walked the darkness. For a week, I literally were blinded by the most obscure will, I ventured to the far end of the country, of myself, I let my intentions dance with an idea that was night. Never coming back would not scare my mind, for it was deliverance; slowly loosened grip, slowly strength becoming an echo I would hear and forget; what was Death? An open road ahead, expanded upon the very road my feet walked and met. There was rain.
I remember this rain.
The thoughts that crossed my mind. She... was there. Not that I ever told what I saw of her, how she dressed, merely how she looked absolutely gorgeous— I couldn't. It would have been lying to myself; for my words lack the power to draw her.
Today is all weird. We're friends. Ordinary so. For months I fought to reverse things. The most terrible thing which happens is never breaking up. It's forgetting. Letting the good times go, letting it all die, parting away with your own life, miserable, unrecognizable to what your heart once projected.
She wishes I find someone. I wish her the same. How does that work?... I can't give a damn about any other girl. I smile. I'm not going to bother her, not anymore. I'll sing No Woman, No Cry... and be done with it.
Hmm my sad story is that 1 and 1/2 years ago my sister died in a garage fire. She had 4 children and a husband. She was much older than me. (in her thirties and I'm only 16), and I never lived with her. We did, however, try to get together every once in a while and she was the sweetest woman you'll ever meet. Anyways, she's gone now. Just thought I'd participate.
If it makes you feel any better. My Uncle died last year. He was awesome. He'd actually treat you as a adult and take you out places and just talk. One time he came over and brought my whole family out to dinner. One month later, my uncle's Mom found him hanging from a rope in there barn. No one did it, it was him who hung himself.
But he was sooo coool. Watching him eat spiders was definitely a plus. :D
Facebook is in. But most of us hate fecebook. And its bad for social life.
BTW its easier to "get with girl" over internet coz its excludes lots of other factors.
And what Ethernal said. Yes making woman jealous works. Opposite works also. Trying to prove her you "love" her.
And there is a reason for both.
Also, Fuzzy, I know what you problem is. You are trying to find someone better than yourself right ? Or someone who stands for things you want him(her) to stand for.
Basically this is hard to find but its key into good and long relationship. Coz nowdays almost everyone is getting divorced.
Probbly coz females are overrated and males are taking everything for granted.
Girls are overrated and they will stay like that coz mean are letting them, and its come to that point you cant change it coz its hard to turn down a woman who is hot; faking to be hot.
And, I wont be talking about my experience with girls or life coz I dislike sharing personal information about myself.
Actually what has come to my tough, lol is that I could so some meeting with friends, female friends, and maybe few men friends about those things. What woman find interesting about man and vice-versa. lol
Anyone thinks that would be good(interesting) move ?
EDIT: BTW if you finish lots of school get lots of money that equals lots of womans, Fuzzy :D.
Also, Fuzzy, I know what you problem is. You are trying to find someone better than yourself right ? Or someone who stands for things you want her to stand for.
Heh, I'd say what I value is someone who can talk in the same depth as me. Someone whom I can have meaningful discussions with, and at the same time be playful with. Someone I can tell a WTF joke to and get a good laugh and a smile together. What fun is a relationship when the person can't relate to you after all right?
Looks can expire with Age, Intellect is usually what is preserved.
I would pick an intelligent and witty/sarcastic average looking girl over a hot chick with little intellect any day. Better than me, No. On par, At the same wavelength, Yes. Certainly someone who can take a stand for herself and confront me rather than giving in all the time then feeling resentful towards me if something doesn't work out. Because sometimes it's just not in our genetic code to be sensitive and read her mind to know if we did something wrong. I've read articles around that women are often compelled to return something in favor when a guy does something for her. In actual fact, we as men just want them to appreciate the things we do for them. Let us be the hero you know? That's what makes us feel successful.
If we're talking jealousy.. Loyalty is probably one of the most important values to me. I don't turn green easily, But if I catch her being an infidel red handed, I have every right to get angry don't I? One of the things I really hate most about this world is that most women think they can get away with flirting with other guys and we get flagged as insecure if we try to confront them about it. I wouldn't make my girl jealous by flirting with other women, so why the hell should she have the right to do so? It's just so damn hard to find someone who can commit without regrets. Relationships need work, one sided love is bullshit. Both parties need to invest effort to make compromises and understand each other. Communication is everything, and when that breaks down or one side closes off diplomacy, it just goes downhill.
I used to think the world was all rainbows and butterflies. But I've been enlightened by the harsh reality. I had to learn it the hard way, That there's just some things in the world that are out of your control, and it's all about whether you want to let the skeletons out of the closet, or stay trapped and live a miserable life.
I choose to move on and fight to grow stronger. If she ever tries to get me back, it's too bad. Because I'll be happily moved on and I won't even think twice about looking back. Cos really, There is a better girl out there who deserves me more than she does.
Damn.. I can't seem to help thinking 3759204 Moves ahead. Darn hyperactive brain neurons.
Seeing as this is the Off-topic section, a place to relax and whatever. We being anonymous and all that. I personally wouldn`t mind hearing whats cooking in your life. In some ways, its nice to talk to strangers that just dont know you.
Anyways, Myself personally, Im having "girl" troubles.
See, I like this woman. We live in different states. Haven`t seen each other in a long time. Use facebook to communicate.
But dammit I like her!!. Meeting her at this point in time cant be done, due to work and other commitments.
Is it possible at all to make someone feel attracted to you even from a distance. I know some people have success with that, doing internet dating or what not, but this isn`t like that. She doesn`t know I like her, and we are just basically friends.
Should I just tell her?. Play hard to get? What to do??
I'm pretty bad as an adviser when it comes to being Dr. Love. But I'd just like to share my experience with long distance relationships (LDR) I've had a few flings over the internet over my younger years. Not to discourage you, but it didn't work out too well for me, which is why I personally don't have much faith in LDR. That was one of the bumpiest times of my life, I fell in love with a girl over the net, on an MMORPG. It's kinda funny now when I think back. But that's the reason why I swore never to sell my soul to an MMO game again. We didn't talk for years, but now we're okay with each other. So it's probably true when they say time heals. Whatever happens, the lesson I learned is that it's never good to let your heart rule your head.
I know how it feels. To want to pursue a relationship, but that fear that that friendship will be lost just holds you back. It can work out two ways. We can try to chase it and risk getting rejected. Or we can sit still and do nothing while our feelings eat us up inside. The longer we wait, the higher the chance we end up being in the 'friend zone'. From my perspective, since we got nothing to lose, might as well just take the risk. If you get rejected, take it as a learning experience. Women.. The more we interact with them, the better we will get at dealing with them. No pain no gain i suppose?
If I were in your shoes, I'd probably try talk to her and try twist the topic towards LDR, try to get her opinion on it.
if(Sheisopentotheidea){//Possible Green Light}else{//Watch your step}
When she asks why (She probably will, and this is your chance to convince her i suppose)
if(Sheisopentotheidea){"Tell her it's because you find her to be a really wonderful and interesting person and would like to try take things to the next level.""Whatever happens don't sound desperate - confidence! Girls can tell when we aren't confident.. sigh.."}else{//Spark curiosity in her?"Well, you see there's this girl I really like that I know over long distance.. But I wasn't sure whether it would be a good idea to go ahead."}Sheaskswhoisthisgirl?if(shesopentotheidea){"Play hard to get?""OR I don't know how to tell you this, but it's you, But you're not open to the idea.. or are you?"}else{"It's you. You're a wonderful/interesting/intelligent etc etc girl and I'd really like to pursue a relationship with you.. But you're not open to the idea right?"}
If at any point she pauses for too long and stops responding. I guess the best assumption would be that she's not interested.. "I don't wish to make any assumptions. If you're not interested, please let me know? So I'll have an easier time when it comes to moving on."
Please take my words with a pinch of salt.. As you know I'm probably on par with you when it comes to dealing with women @_@
You need to know the syntax of life, or else it wouldnt work. As you can see in his code, its just comments which mean advices, please don't take it and execute like a robot. Actually no actual command line was ran
Very often it is found that RL is too outdated for this to work. However, it may be possible to get it working with a few hardware upgrades, Driver updates and Third party software. These include:
GROOM™ 2BAwesome 3300 Series, with the latest CONFIDENCE™ Drivers 5.30.09.20.10
This hardware may take awhile to burn in, But with continued and persistent usage, Results should become apparent.
SPEECH™, Comes in many flavors including English, Chinese, Swahili and French (For the hopeless romantics)
A software that requires persistent use. You should find that it Auto-Patches itself from time to time as you become more proficient with it.
VULCAN™ EQ Drivers, Most humans come with this, It is whether or not they decide to switch to it from the default EMO™ QQ Drivers.
Unfortunately due to manufacturing faults, A ninja bug was discovered where EMO™ QQ Drivers would sometimes be launched when loading RL.exe despite VULCAN™ EQ Drivers being the one of your choice. Despite a multitude of patches being released to fix this, there has been no avail.
Advantages of switching to these drivers include:
The ability to maintain your composure in tricky situations
The ability to approach and talk to women without the fear of rejection
The ability to assess situations and react to them with your head, not your heart.
Please check section 2.1 in the VULCAN™ EQ Drivers manual for extensive details.
Thank you for contacting tech support. We wish you utmost success on your journey to being more successful with the ladies.
Corrected the code above as pointed out by progammer
You know. When I first created this thread, I thought "Nah man this is gonna be silly". I tried to delete it immediately but yeah, You cant really delete it into the void. Its still visible I think. So I thought what the heck..
1200 views. My my...and plenty of interesting bits in between.
Back to your other post, and do let me dissect it at various times because its too much to write on at one go.
You fell in love with someone in an MMO?. Hahahah *Falls over chair* *Wakes up, Sits on chair* *Falls over again* :p
Yeah...that happens...
Kinda happened to me too, then I realized the person was a GUY. Damn these people that roll female toons and pretend...
So yeah, then anyway, I meet this other women there. I see her picture...and...ooooooooookay....thats when I decide to quit WoW.
I realized. The chance of a hot/cute girl playing any online game, is extremely looooow. It makes sense I suppose, if they are hot, they dont need that form of escapism.
Lots of good stuff here...
Yeah if you pay attention to details, and take a look a love interest's Facebook, theres a tendancy to be totally no longer interested. I for one am completely anti-facebook. Its stupid "look at me" "look at me" bullshit that I for one will not tolerate.
EternalWraith for once I agree with you 100%. Women are overrated, and a pain in the ass.
And I hear you can rent women down at your local pub. It just costs a couple drinks as a down payment. And theres no messy break-up Included.
I don't really use Facebook except to gather some random lulz here and there from the Like Pages. Amusing stuff thar.
@FuzzYD: Go I think our situation is quite similar. Three years have I shared with this sweet! sweet girl. She approached me, one day, not going after anyone else despite what distance I kept with people, she came to me, surprisingly, with all her light and cute little hands. She would always request a hug. All the time.
I walked the darkness. For a week, I literally were blinded by the most obscure will, I ventured to the far end of the country, of myself, I let my intentions dance with an idea that was night. Never coming back would not scare my mind, for it was deliverance; slowly loosened grip, slowly strength becoming an echo I would hear and forget; what was Death? An open road ahead, expanded upon the very road my feet walked and met. There was rain.
I remember this rain.
The thoughts that crossed my mind. She... was there. Not that I ever told what I saw of her, how she dressed, merely how she looked absolutely gorgeous— I couldn't. It would have been lying to myself; for my words lack the power to draw her.
Today is all weird. We're friends. Ordinary so. For months I fought to reverse things. The most terrible thing which happens is never breaking up. It's forgetting. Letting the good times go, letting it all die, parting away with your own life, miserable, unrecognizable to what your heart once projected.
She wishes I find someone. I wish her the same. How does that work?... I can't give a damn about any other girl. I smile. I'm not going to bother her, not anymore. I'll sing No Woman, No Cry... and be done with it.
@FableRoy: Go
If it makes you feel any better. My Uncle died last year. He was awesome. He'd actually treat you as a adult and take you out places and just talk. One time he came over and brought my whole family out to dinner. One month later, my uncle's Mom found him hanging from a rope in there barn. No one did it, it was him who hung himself.
But he was sooo coool. Watching him eat spiders was definitely a plus. :D
Facebook is in. But most of us hate fecebook. And its bad for social life.
BTW its easier to "get with girl" over internet coz its excludes lots of other factors.
And what Ethernal said. Yes making woman jealous works. Opposite works also. Trying to prove her you "love" her.
And there is a reason for both.
Also, Fuzzy, I know what you problem is. You are trying to find someone better than yourself right ? Or someone who stands for things you want him(her) to stand for.
Basically this is hard to find but its key into good and long relationship. Coz nowdays almost everyone is getting divorced.
Probbly coz females are overrated and males are taking everything for granted.
Girls are overrated and they will stay like that coz mean are letting them, and its come to that point you cant change it coz its hard to turn down a woman who is hot; faking to be hot.
And, I wont be talking about my experience with girls or life coz I dislike sharing personal information about myself.
Actually what has come to my tough, lol is that I could so some meeting with friends, female friends, and maybe few men friends about those things. What woman find interesting about man and vice-versa. lol
Anyone thinks that would be good(interesting) move ?
EDIT: BTW if you finish lots of school get lots of money that equals lots of womans, Fuzzy :D.
@tigerija: Go
Heh, I'd say what I value is someone who can talk in the same depth as me. Someone whom I can have meaningful discussions with, and at the same time be playful with. Someone I can tell a WTF joke to and get a good laugh and a smile together. What fun is a relationship when the person can't relate to you after all right?
Looks can expire with Age, Intellect is usually what is preserved.
I would pick an intelligent and witty/sarcastic average looking girl over a hot chick with little intellect any day. Better than me, No. On par, At the same wavelength, Yes. Certainly someone who can take a stand for herself and confront me rather than giving in all the time then feeling resentful towards me if something doesn't work out. Because sometimes it's just not in our genetic code to be sensitive and read her mind to know if we did something wrong. I've read articles around that women are often compelled to return something in favor when a guy does something for her. In actual fact, we as men just want them to appreciate the things we do for them. Let us be the hero you know? That's what makes us feel successful.
If we're talking jealousy.. Loyalty is probably one of the most important values to me. I don't turn green easily, But if I catch her being an infidel red handed, I have every right to get angry don't I? One of the things I really hate most about this world is that most women think they can get away with flirting with other guys and we get flagged as insecure if we try to confront them about it. I wouldn't make my girl jealous by flirting with other women, so why the hell should she have the right to do so? It's just so damn hard to find someone who can commit without regrets. Relationships need work, one sided love is bullshit. Both parties need to invest effort to make compromises and understand each other. Communication is everything, and when that breaks down or one side closes off diplomacy, it just goes downhill.
I used to think the world was all rainbows and butterflies. But I've been enlightened by the harsh reality. I had to learn it the hard way, That there's just some things in the world that are out of your control, and it's all about whether you want to let the skeletons out of the closet, or stay trapped and live a miserable life.
I choose to move on and fight to grow stronger. If she ever tries to get me back, it's too bad. Because I'll be happily moved on and I won't even think twice about looking back. Cos really, There is a better girl out there who deserves me more than she does.
Damn.. I can't seem to help thinking 3759204 Moves ahead. Darn hyperactive brain neurons.
I'm pretty bad as an adviser when it comes to being Dr. Love. But I'd just like to share my experience with long distance relationships (LDR) I've had a few flings over the internet over my younger years. Not to discourage you, but it didn't work out too well for me, which is why I personally don't have much faith in LDR. That was one of the bumpiest times of my life, I fell in love with a girl over the net, on an MMORPG. It's kinda funny now when I think back. But that's the reason why I swore never to sell my soul to an MMO game again. We didn't talk for years, but now we're okay with each other. So it's probably true when they say time heals. Whatever happens, the lesson I learned is that it's never good to let your heart rule your head.
I know how it feels. To want to pursue a relationship, but that fear that that friendship will be lost just holds you back. It can work out two ways. We can try to chase it and risk getting rejected. Or we can sit still and do nothing while our feelings eat us up inside. The longer we wait, the higher the chance we end up being in the 'friend zone'. From my perspective, since we got nothing to lose, might as well just take the risk. If you get rejected, take it as a learning experience. Women.. The more we interact with them, the better we will get at dealing with them. No pain no gain i suppose?
If I were in your shoes, I'd probably try talk to her and try twist the topic towards LDR, try to get her opinion on it.
When she asks why (She probably will, and this is your chance to convince her i suppose)
If at any point she pauses for too long and stops responding. I guess the best assumption would be that she's not interested.. "I don't wish to make any assumptions. If you're not interested, please let me know? So I'll have an easier time when it comes to moving on."
Please take my words with a pinch of salt.. As you know I'm probably on par with you when it comes to dealing with women @_@
@FuzzYD: Go
Can that code be ported to real life easily, or is RL too outdated these days for that to work?
@FuzzYD:
LMFAo i loved that code thing it was epic lol
@wOlfLisK: Go
You need to know the syntax of life, or else it wouldnt work. As you can see in his code, its just comments which mean advices, please don't take it and execute like a robot. Actually no actual command line was ran
@FuzzYD: Go
Be sure to close the bracket and "" properly or the code tag will look that funky. (color wise)
@FuzzYD: Go
I think you've crossed the borders with programming...Im amazed. O_o
@wOlfLisK: Go
Very often it is found that RL is too outdated for this to work. However, it may be possible to get it working with a few hardware upgrades, Driver updates and Third party software. These include:
Advantages of switching to these drivers include:
Thank you for contacting tech support. We wish you utmost success on your journey to being more successful with the ladies.
Corrected the code above as pointed out by progammer
lol :D
@FuzzYD: Go
Hahaha!!. That was a great post!!;p
FuzzyD i think you need more opportunities to express your creativity
@FuzzYD: Go
You know. When I first created this thread, I thought "Nah man this is gonna be silly". I tried to delete it immediately but yeah, You cant really delete it into the void. Its still visible I think. So I thought what the heck..
1200 views. My my...and plenty of interesting bits in between.
Back to your other post, and do let me dissect it at various times because its too much to write on at one go.
You fell in love with someone in an MMO?. Hahahah *Falls over chair* *Wakes up, Sits on chair* *Falls over again* :p
Yeah...that happens...
Kinda happened to me too, then I realized the person was a GUY. Damn these people that roll female toons and pretend...
So yeah, then anyway, I meet this other women there. I see her picture...and...ooooooooookay....thats when I decide to quit WoW.
I realized. The chance of a hot/cute girl playing any online game, is extremely looooow. It makes sense I suppose, if they are hot, they dont need that form of escapism.