@iMisu Hey...I never quite bought the story that you are a Woman... <_< >_> Anyone else believe him/her? :p
LMFAO lol, could be a he/she you never know joke joke Quote:
@Victiln Totally agree with this guy. Hardcore pc`s > Chicks! Pc`s , You can turn them "on" whenever you want
i think ihave it sick mind when i read this, lol you can turn it on when ever you want, any here find that abit hmm lets say sick or is it just me =P Quote:
theres a prom at the end on the school year
wtf are school proms, at the school i went to we just had a big party at a local cub =P Quote:
Well, shes not the kind of person to wear expensive jewellery :/
no click in the world don't like jewelery =P, buy her some and shes yours =P
A school prom is the official 'disco' at the end of all compulsory school, but with a fancy name :P. Pretty much it's 'Rent a tuxedo/ really formal dress and a limo and go to a disco'. Then we can choose to stay on till 18/uni etc :D
Not to knock the internet dating crowd cause I know it works for some people... but in my opinion unless there's a reasonable chance for success (ie: you two moving closer to one another or an unusually strong commitment over long distance) then I would just stay friends and don't bother telling her. Or tell her without the expectation of her reciprocating and anything becoming of you two. Long distance relationships can be torturous.
As for my story right now - I haven't really got a sad story. I'm back to university, taking Global Development Studies (mixture of economics, politics, history, mostly relating to the Third World), I live with my girlfriend, we're planning a trip to Cuba when her brother comes home from Afghanistan in November/December and I'm working full time at a casino. lol I have had rough times in my life but who hasn't? You've got to joyfully participate in the sufferings of the world. :)
@QMJ3: Go
I am so sorry. That is such a sad story. Economics AND politics AND history! Well, maybe you can turn your life around if mcdonalds hires you :D
How do people manage to work at fast food places?. The urge to sneak/eat something would be too powerful for me to last long in a job like that:/
Long story short I used to be depressed and suicidal in the beginning (like first half) of high school and I nearly killed myself. I was a C student, didn't really do anything or try.
Now I'm a freshman in college, I'm having the time of my life, never been happier (ditto on the girl problems though), and I'm not sure whether this is real life or I'm dreaming :D Also, I pulled my grades up to solid A's (3.98 GPA) for my senior year of high school. Also, I'm learning to do the things I love, like math and programming :D
I just had the love of my life say no when I asked a friend to ask if she loved me.
Flat no, along with a side comment that read somewhat like "I'm a lez, so me and him wouldn't work out anyways." Even though I knew she was lez, I had hoped.
Still, the question never asked is the worst question of all.
I'll go continue trying to duct tape my heart back together. Good day, sahs.
Am I the only one here who has a girlfriend and is completely happy with her? We've got our ups and downs, but overall it's great.
Nope. I'm in the same boat.
The 'down' part just happened to be that she was hanging out with some guy that I had told her just wanted to bang her and try to break us up. Well, needless to say she didn't listen to me, and ended up getting raped by him. Silver Lining: she always listens to me now.
Procrastination buddy:p?. Lulz I have that too, when it comes to map making.
If I could just @#@$%ing put 2 hours a day into my map, It would have been done ages ago.
But its like I open the editor...I stare a bit at my screen...alt+f4....*Plays Sc2*
Exact. Same. Thing. Here.
I open the editor and am like alright lets get this layout going.... *places cliff* hmm all done for tonight... *plays sc2*
Heres a sad story:
So I'm like 16 years old. This girls the same age, and sorry for another Girl topic...But this ones pretty unique to the others...So anyways, its probably my own fault that I don't have her as a Girlfriend right now. I told her I liked her, I just went out and told her, and she was all cool with that, she liked me and so on. I never asked her if she wanted to by my girlfriend...Why? Well her Facebook Status think is changing relationships every two weeks. I'm not sure I want to get into that mess.
I mean, it could work out or I could be the next boy that gets X'd off the list in two weeks. I think I rather be friends with her. :(
I wasn't saying anything about online relationships. I was simply trying to point out that those that take the time to look, will realize that attempting a relationship will be screwed over.
Not to say it WOULD be, but chances are it would.
You said you're 16, right? -Checks- Yeah, anyways. You don't need to get a relationship that soon, just keep working on school and your friendships, and something will come along soon. Sure, high school is all about the dating and crap, but honestly, you can wait. Once senior year/prom/etc starts coming around, that's when you start making your move.
And of course, here I am, giving relationship advice. Note my mentioned and unmentioned failures. :P
24 Years, Doing postgraduate masters. Only ever had one girlfriend and was destroyed by it when it didn't work out. Never got closure. It's too bad he doesn't let go easily. Because time and again he is haunted by the questions he never got the answers to (and probably never will. .)
Each passing day has been a battle to keep busy and stay happy. To flip off depression, his sworn formless enemy. That is me. . .
It's so hard to put my heart into postgraduate work I'm supposed to do. It's as if I've chosen the wrong path. . Do I hate this? Maybe?. .
I'm a programmer. . Not a research journal writer. .
In general, I find it hard to talk to people without having a motive behind it. Is this flaw fixable?. . Because it stops me from talking to women I'm attracted to, but have no business with. I'm not desperate, If I was, I would settle for less. But I don't feel that sense of achievement there knowing I could have had better.
All this can be traced back to confidence. . The world I grew up in was full of discrimination. . People intentionally finding fault in my ideologies. . I tried to please them but it always worked against my favor. Thus, I happened to take it very personally. But now I've chosen to burn bridges, screw those *holes.
Material goods. . I have pretty much everything that's essential for survival. The only 'want' missing in my life is intimacy, a girlfriend who can color my life from it's monochromatic state. Everywhere I go, I see couples. And It makes me sad that I just can't seem to find someone I can connect with. . I've tested the water, but perhaps not quite enough. . Cos apparently if you don't succeed, you just ain't trying hard enough.
-Random babble from the mind of a Melancholic that is me.
Women and relationships are overrated. They really are. I can identify a bit with your predicament. I was in similar situation.
I just learnt to not really give a damn. You know. Why should I care?. I bury myself in my work, designing maps and stuff like that.
Try to enjoy being single while it lasts. You cant exactly force destiny or try too hard to get into a relationship. It just wont work like that. When the time is right, it will happen, on its own accord. Like you`ll bump into her or meet her wherever and stuff like that. You should not see it as a "quest" , "Get into a relationship with your soulmate before age xx" lol;p
You seem like a nice person too, so really, dont worry too much about it. You`ll just be miserable and depressed, and WHEN she does come by, you wont notice it or your behavior/attitude will just push her away.
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A school prom is the official 'disco' at the end of all compulsory school, but with a fancy name :P. Pretty much it's 'Rent a tuxedo/ really formal dress and a limo and go to a disco'. Then we can choose to stay on till 18/uni etc :D
@EternalWraith: Go
Not to knock the internet dating crowd cause I know it works for some people... but in my opinion unless there's a reasonable chance for success (ie: you two moving closer to one another or an unusually strong commitment over long distance) then I would just stay friends and don't bother telling her. Or tell her without the expectation of her reciprocating and anything becoming of you two. Long distance relationships can be torturous.
As for my story right now - I haven't really got a sad story. I'm back to university, taking Global Development Studies (mixture of economics, politics, history, mostly relating to the Third World), I live with my girlfriend, we're planning a trip to Cuba when her brother comes home from Afghanistan in November/December and I'm working full time at a casino. lol I have had rough times in my life but who hasn't? You've got to joyfully participate in the sufferings of the world. :)
I am so sorry. That is such a sad story. Economics AND politics AND history! Well, maybe you can turn your life around if mcdonalds hires you :D
How do people manage to work at fast food places?. The urge to sneak/eat something would be too powerful for me to last long in a job like that:/
Long story short I used to be depressed and suicidal in the beginning (like first half) of high school and I nearly killed myself. I was a C student, didn't really do anything or try.
Now I'm a freshman in college, I'm having the time of my life, never been happier (ditto on the girl problems though), and I'm not sure whether this is real life or I'm dreaming :D Also, I pulled my grades up to solid A's (3.98 GPA) for my senior year of high school. Also, I'm learning to do the things I love, like math and programming :D
My sad story has a happy ending ^_^
I still didn't get my baggage back from the airport ¬_¬
They told me it'll be here yesterday. I WANT MY STUFF
Also, TheSecretArts wins the thread
@TheSecretArts: Go
Woe is Me!. I failed! I told her, but it came out all wrong. @$@$!%@#$@%!#!%!@%^&
@EternalWraith: Go
I work and play SC2, and work on the SC2 Editor = girls I date hate how I have no time for them.
Am I the only one here who has a girlfriend and is completely happy with her? We've got our ups and downs, but overall it's great.
Now that I'm done procrastinating.
I just had the love of my life say no when I asked a friend to ask if she loved me.
Flat no, along with a side comment that read somewhat like "I'm a lez, so me and him wouldn't work out anyways." Even though I knew she was lez, I had hoped.
Still, the question never asked is the worst question of all.
I'll go continue trying to duct tape my heart back together. Good day, sahs.
Well, I won't say "there's plenty of other fish in the sea", but I will say that if she doesn't like you, she's probably not the love of your life.
Russel's teapot logical always works flawlessly :D
Meh, she might but just doesn't want to admit to it. Who knows.
Now that I'm calmed down and not literally in agonizing pain on the left side of my chest...
I think I shall play some SC.
Nope. I'm in the same boat.
The 'down' part just happened to be that she was hanging out with some guy that I had told her just wanted to bang her and try to break us up. Well, needless to say she didn't listen to me, and ended up getting raped by him. Silver Lining: she always listens to me now.
May the Almighty Raptor of the internetwebz shine light upon this dead thread, reviving it and blessing it with undying strength!
-Casts Revive-
Exact. Same. Thing. Here.
I open the editor and am like alright lets get this layout going.... *places cliff* hmm all done for tonight... *plays sc2*
Heres a sad story:
So I'm like 16 years old. This girls the same age, and sorry for another Girl topic...But this ones pretty unique to the others...So anyways, its probably my own fault that I don't have her as a Girlfriend right now. I told her I liked her, I just went out and told her, and she was all cool with that, she liked me and so on. I never asked her if she wanted to by my girlfriend...Why? Well her Facebook Status think is changing relationships every two weeks. I'm not sure I want to get into that mess.
I mean, it could work out or I could be the next boy that gets X'd off the list in two weeks. I think I rather be friends with her. :(
Ouch, sucks for you.
Facebook: Preventing those with an eye for detail from getting a relationship.
-Revive is super effective!-
@Vlaeder: Go
Actually, I know her IRL. But since I left a community group I haven't seen her since. Just been talking on facebook. =/
I wasn't saying anything about online relationships. I was simply trying to point out that those that take the time to look, will realize that attempting a relationship will be screwed over.
Not to say it WOULD be, but chances are it would.
You said you're 16, right? -Checks- Yeah, anyways. You don't need to get a relationship that soon, just keep working on school and your friendships, and something will come along soon. Sure, high school is all about the dating and crap, but honestly, you can wait. Once senior year/prom/etc starts coming around, that's when you start making your move.
And of course, here I am, giving relationship advice. Note my mentioned and unmentioned failures. :P
24 Years, Doing postgraduate masters. Only ever had one girlfriend and was destroyed by it when it didn't work out. Never got closure. It's too bad he doesn't let go easily. Because time and again he is haunted by the questions he never got the answers to (and probably never will. .)
Each passing day has been a battle to keep busy and stay happy. To flip off depression, his sworn formless enemy. That is me. . . It's so hard to put my heart into postgraduate work I'm supposed to do. It's as if I've chosen the wrong path. . Do I hate this? Maybe?. . I'm a programmer. . Not a research journal writer. .
In general, I find it hard to talk to people without having a motive behind it. Is this flaw fixable?. . Because it stops me from talking to women I'm attracted to, but have no business with. I'm not desperate, If I was, I would settle for less. But I don't feel that sense of achievement there knowing I could have had better.
All this can be traced back to confidence. . The world I grew up in was full of discrimination. . People intentionally finding fault in my ideologies. . I tried to please them but it always worked against my favor. Thus, I happened to take it very personally. But now I've chosen to burn bridges, screw those *holes.
Material goods. . I have pretty much everything that's essential for survival. The only 'want' missing in my life is intimacy, a girlfriend who can color my life from it's monochromatic state. Everywhere I go, I see couples. And It makes me sad that I just can't seem to find someone I can connect with. . I've tested the water, but perhaps not quite enough. . Cos apparently if you don't succeed, you just ain't trying hard enough.
-Random babble from the mind of a Melancholic that is me.
@FuzzYD:
Women and relationships are overrated. They really are. I can identify a bit with your predicament. I was in similar situation.
I just learnt to not really give a damn. You know. Why should I care?. I bury myself in my work, designing maps and stuff like that.
Try to enjoy being single while it lasts. You cant exactly force destiny or try too hard to get into a relationship. It just wont work like that. When the time is right, it will happen, on its own accord. Like you`ll bump into her or meet her wherever and stuff like that. You should not see it as a "quest" , "Get into a relationship with your soulmate before age xx" lol;p
You seem like a nice person too, so really, dont worry too much about it. You`ll just be miserable and depressed, and WHEN she does come by, you wont notice it or your behavior/attitude will just push her away.